In the United Kingdom, there is a procedure that you must follow in order to adopt a child. But first, you need to decide on which country you want to adopt from. Then, you must find out if the country is a Hague Convention country or a country on the designated list. A Hague Convention country is a country that signed up to the 1993 Hague Convention on intercountry adoption. It is an act meant to protect children who are being adopted internationally. If the country is a Hague Convention country, the adoption will be recognized in both countries, and the child will automatically acquire British nationality. If the country is not a Hague Convention country, the United Kingdom will recognize countries on the designated list and adoptions from them, but the child will not automatically be considered a British citizen, so you need to have a clear immigration plan. If a country does not fit either of these, then you might need to apply for adoption in both countries. 

The law in the United Kingdom is very broad in criteria for those that can apply to adopt. The only requirements are that you must be at least 21 years of age, have not been a convicted felon, and you live in the United Kingdom. An adoption agency authorized to handle intercountry adoptions will also need to approve your suitability to be a parent. They will look at your finances, health, and any other children in your family. The steps in adopting include a home study—completed by a social worker—a panel approval of ten experts, certificate of eligibility to adopt, being matched with a child, and then the legal process with immigration. To begin this process, you will need to make contact with an adoption agency to receive information on their services. The adoption agency will formally assess you to determine if you are eligible to adopt. While it is a long process, it is definitely worth the extra time to bring a child into your home. For more information, visit www.nataliegambleassociates.co.uk.

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1. Mumsnet

Covering topics like “choosing a school,” “how to speed up time,” and “sibling adoption,” threads on this website are likely to be responded to with honesty and positivity, giving you a realistic idea of how to navigate the challenges of your adoption journey.

2. Mothering.com/forum/

Subscribed to by mothers all over the world, this website covers topics from healthy eating to attachment to haircuts. You will find mothers asking proactive questions about adoption decisions that are responded to with truthfulness and encouragement.

3. Adoption.com/forums/88/uk-and-Ireland-adoption/

From adoptees looking for their birth mothers to artists making BBC adoption documentaries, this forum is a positive arena for connecting with those in your nation thriving through adoption.

4. Netmums.com/support/all-about-adoption

Beginning by helping you determine your adoption eligibility, this forum helps you to find a community, get a home study, and learn how to be matched with a child. You may be surprised to earn that you are exactly the kind of person who is welcome to adopt, and you can move forward in your journey with grace and confidence. 

5. Forums/afteradoption.org/uk

Adoptees looking for birth parents, writing letters to blood relatives, and looking for a company can be found here.

6. Fertilityfriends.co.uk/forum/

Seeking to provide a balanced view of adoptions, this website contains real but positive stories about successful adoptions and flourishing kids.

7. Adopterssupportuk.freeforums.net

Check out the “Good board” for positive adoption narratives on this site, as well as a myriad of resources for working with children who have ADHD, FAS, and sensory issues.

8. First4adoption.org.uk/supportttype/web-forums/

Adoption professionals, inspiring quotes, and a step-by-step breakdown of the adoption process can be found on this forum. Those who thought they could may not be candidates for adoption may be pleasantly surprised at their eligibility.

9. Familytreeforum.com

The miracle and joy of adoption are apparent here, where articles, blogs, and projects are also available. Family tree photos and genealogy searches are common.

10. Adoptionheart.org.uk

Waiting children, prospective adoptive parents, and birth relatives can be found here, along with a support team of clinical psychologists, play therapists, and social workers. The village it takes to change a life is available at your fingertips!

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• improve relationships with friends, family members, teachers and school staff
• improve engagement with learning
• improve emotional regulation and behavior management
• improve confidence and ability to enjoy a positive family life and social relationships

Families are given access to this fund if they meet these criteria:

• A family has children up to and including the age of 21 or 25 and have a SEN Statement or ECH Plan
• The child has been adopted from local authority care in England or have been adopted from Wales, Scotland, Northern Ireland, but are living in England. 
• An assessment of the families’ adoption support need was made by a local authority. Families have the right to request an assessment; the local authority is required by law to assess. It is the responsibility of the local authority to assess for adoption support needs for three years after the adoption order is complete. After the first three years, it is the responsibility of the local authority where you live if it is different.

After April 1, 2016, the fund became available for children after being placed in England and for special guardians who care for children who were looked after immediately prior to the special guardianship order.

According to familylives.org.uk, “A special guardianship order is an order appointing one or more individuals to be a child’s ‘special guardian.’ It is a private law order made under the Children Act 1989 and is intended for those children who cannot live with their birth parents and who would benefit from a legally secure placement.”

The social worker should talk to you about who can provide the types of service that you need and will recommend a provider. This could be an NHS provider, the local authority itself, a nearby local authority, or an independent provider. Local authorities are able to submit applications for funding before an adoption order so that any package of support from the time of placement can be continued once the adoption order is made. In 2016 and  2017, the fund was being extended to include packages of work that take place prior to the adoption order being made.

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1) You will complete a lot of paperwork.

Be prepared to provide details about your background, family, employment and finances. You’ll also need to write an autobiography about your childhood, parenting style and beliefs as well as a letter to potential birth parents.

2) You’ll need to schedule a physical with your family doctor.

As part of your adoption requirements, you’ll need a clean bill of health. You can start by taking good care of yourself now and ensuring any health issues are addressed.

3) It’s important to work with a good, reputable adoption agency or attorney.

A skilled professional will help you successfully navigate adopting, ensure all legal requirements are met and be there to support and guide you.

4) A home study is not as scary as it sounds.

A social worker will set up a series of visits in your home to be sure you can provide a safe, loving environment for a child. Although this may sound intimidating, it’s actually a great opportunity to learn more about the adoption process and what to expect. Your social worker is not there to judge or scrutinize, but rather to educate you and prepare you for your adoption journey. He or she will also answer any questions or concerns you may have.

5) The adoption process is unpredictable, and the wait can be long.

There is really no way of knowing when you’ll adopt or what situations you’ll encounter. With domestic infant adoption, expectant parents choose you, so it really depends on what they are looking for and whether or not you’re a good match for them. With international adoptions, requirements and laws can change at any time and sometimes programs close unexpectedly or get put on hold. No matter what type of adoption you’re pursuing, expect the unexpected. Bring plenty of patience and try to be flexible whenever possible.

6) You’ll need to do some networking to help increase your chances of adopting.

If you just sit back and wait for an expectant parent to come to your agency and choose you, you could be waiting a very long time. Those who adopt successfully often network on their own to increase their chances and shorten their wait times. Some ideas you might want to consider are: an online adoption profile, business cards that express your desire to adopt, letters to family and friends, word of mouth, newspaper ads and a toll-free number for pregnant women to contact you.

7) Most adoptions today have some degree of openness.

Gone are the days where birth parents had no contact or involvement with adoptive families. The majority of domestic adoptions now include communication through letters, photos, phone calls, and even visits. Some families choose to communicate through the adoption agency; others have direct contact. It all depends on what both parties agree on.

8) Adoption scams are more common than you think.

You’ll need to be careful when dealing with adoption professionals and potential birth parents. Not every agency is reputable, so do your homework first. Also be aware of red flags with expectant mothers, such as wanting large sums of money, not providing proof of pregnancy, not working with an adoption agency or attorney, etc. Many hopeful adoptive parents, including myself, have come across at least one person who was pretending to be pregnant to get gifts and money.

9) Some days you will feel like giving up.

The adoption process is an up-and-down emotional roller coaster. Failed matches, a long wait, and unexpected obstacles can leave you feeling sad and discouraged. You may wonder if you’ll ever become a parent and, on your worst days, you may even consider giving up on adopting. This is all part of the journey. Hang in there and know that most people who pursue adoption are eventually successful.

10) The day you bring your child home will be a day you never forget.

Holding your child in your arms for the first time and bringing him or her home will fill you with a mixture of overwhelming love and fear. Your life will never be the same. But that’s a good thing. All your struggles and disappointments have led you to your precious child. You are a parent at last—and now the journey really begins.

Deanna Kahler

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According to this website, the order in which you complete the UK adoption process is slightly different than in the US. The biggest difference is in the time it takes to become qualified to adopt. There are five stages to their adoption process.

To start, an individual will go through the pre-stage one process and that is about exploration. The meeting is about reading background information and hearing from seasoned adoptive parents. Think of this as adoption orientation. During this time you are also starting to find an agency near your postcode that you are comfortable with. It is good to check out multiple agencies and see which one fits your family the best.

The Four Stages

The next stage in the process is stage one. Once you have found your agency then you will start the formal evaluation process. This includes background checks and providing references. This process should not take longer than two months.

Stage two seems to be the bulk of time in the adoption process. This is also the part of the process that gets a bit personal. Your family will be assigned a social worker out of the agency you choose. Your social worker is going to work on assessing your family’s strengths and getting personal background information to make a report to submit to the adoption panel. This stage takes about four months and is fairly in depth.

The next stage is stage three, this is where things start to get exciting. Your family’s profile will go up against the prospective adoptive children’s profiles to be matched. Your adoption agency will work with local authorities to match your family with the right child or sibling group. The main topic that is discussed is if the child/children’s suitability with your family. The matching panel makes the final decision in this process.

The final and the most exciting stage in my own opinion is stage four. This stage includes meeting the child/children with your social worker. I will never forget the time I met all of my children and the time I got to spend with them. You get to know each other’s personalities and see if you mesh well together. According to the website, there will be a series of visits and short stays before move-in day. After an undisclosed amount of time, you can apply to become their legal parents.

Final  Thoughts

According to this website, there are about 4,000 children waiting to be adopted, but few babies. Most children have been taken into care because they can no longer live with their birth parents due to abuse/neglect. Most of the children in care are older, sibling groups, or disabled. This site has a list of who qualifies as a prospective adoptive family before you decide to apply to start the process.

Both websites have contact information to help guide you in the right direction. Adoption was the best thing that ever happened to my family and the difference you can make in a child’s life is amazing. If you have space and the love to give, I highly encourage you to adopt.

You can find more information here and here about UK adoption.

Jade Carterette

If you are considering international adoption, visit Adoption.com/international to find more guidance on how to begin.

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